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Money-saving tips to prevent your divorce from breaking the bank

We have all heard that divorce can be very expensive, but it doesn't always have to be that way. In fact, there are many money-saving techniques that can help cut costs during the divorce process, as a recent article from Fox Business explained. First, the article said that it is important to establish a divorce budget and stick to it. This will help prevent costs from getting out of hand when your emotions are running on high.

Next, the article said that it is most cost-effective to avoid going to court whenever possible. The litigation process, although necessary in some cases, is what often drives up the cost of getting a divorce, so other options should be considered first. One of these options is mediation, which can assist the parties in reaching a mutual agreement through a facilitated negotiation process.

Money-saving tips to prevent your divorce from breaking the bank

We have all heard that divorce can be very expensive, but it doesn't always have to be that way. In fact, there are many money-saving techniques that can help cut costs during the divorce process, as a recent article from Fox Business explained. First, the article said that it is important to establish a divorce budget and stick to it. This will help prevent costs from getting out of hand when your emotions are running on high.

Next, the article said that it is most cost-effective to avoid going to court whenever possible. The litigation process, although necessary in some cases, is what often drives up the cost of getting a divorce, so other options should be considered first. One of these options is mediation, which can assist the parties in reaching a mutual agreement through a facilitated negotiation process.

Considering a father's rights when adopting domestically

While Angelina Jolie may have brought the world's attention to the overwhelming need for international adoptions, there are still families here in the United States who realize that there are children here who need homes just as badly. But while domestic adoption is considered to be less volatile because it doesn't rely on foreign government communications, differing laws between states can sometimes be just as cumbersome in the end.

Illinois residents considering adoption should also take into consideration a fathers' rights in the matter. This can especially be difficult in circumstances where the mother is a teenager or perhaps is in an abusive relationship and cannot care for the child. Depending on the state, and the amount of time between when the mother relinquishes her rights and the adoption papers are signed, there may be a period of time when the father can request child custody.

Can one judge's religious beliefs affect a child custody case?

While many Illinois residents are familiar with the phrase 'separation of church and state,' a case out of Minnesota this month has some people wondering whether a judge's religious views can really have a significant impact on the outcome of a child custody case.

The concerns surrounding the 2011 child custody case began when the mother explained to the court that she wanted to distance her kids from the Baptist beliefs of her husband. According to her husband's beliefs, wives should be submissive to their husbands. When the mother struggled to cite the exact passage, one of the judges allegedly said that she knew which passage the woman was referring to and recalled having the same disapproval at her own wedding.

Illinois state assembly gives family law an upgrade

Ask any attorney about family law in the state of Illinois and they will tell you that it's not only long but complicated as well. It's been a source of contention for couples for decades, causing them further frustration beyond what divorce normally brings.

It's an issue the bipartisan Family Law Study Committee has known about for quite some time now. For the past four years, the committee, chaired by family attorney Andre Katz, has been hearing from judges, family law experts, child advocates, and the public in an effort to discover what the current state of family law is in the state and how to remedy our laws to match the change.

Undocumented immigrant mother reunited with daughter after custody battle

Along with many other topics, immigration reform has become one of the top things that President Obama has decided to handle before the end of his second term. But while these new reforms will change how immigrants gain access to the United States, they may also have a major impact on certain aspects of family law as well.

For decades now, immigrant families here in Illinois and across the country have been torn apart by instances of deportation and vicious child custody battles all because one or both parents are not considered to be legal citizens. Often times, tough legal situations arise not because of what type of parent the immigrant is, but because of the negative stigma associated with undocumented immigrants.

Why communication is so important before and during a divorce

With the national average of first marriages that end in divorce hovering around 50 percent, it's no surprise that optimistic couples in Illinois want to be the exception to the rule-beat the odds so to speak. But the sad fact of the matter is that not all marriages end happily ever after, and sometimes the only way to get your happy ending is to get a divorce.

While going through the separation process, there is one thing that crops up time and time again in advice columns everywhere: communication. And although it may seem hard to follow through on, opening the lines of communication both before and during a divorce could eliminate many of the stresses most commonly associated with divorce proceedings.

If a spouse is incompetent, can a guardian initiate a divorce?

In Illinois, when an adult is found by a court to be incompetent to manage his or her own affairs, a legal guardian is appointed to do so. The person who has been declared incompetent is referred to as a "ward," and the guardian's legal duty is to act in the ward's best interest. So what should happen when a guardian determines it would be in the ward's best interest to get a divorce? Would a guardian have the right to file for divorce on behalf of the ward?

The question was first addressed by the Illinois Supreme Court in 1986, in a case called "In re Marriage of Drews." In that case, the court decided that the dissolution of marriage was too personal a decision for a guardian to make. For one thing, at that time, Illinois divorce law required a finding of fault, which seemed unjust in such cases. Second, how could a guardian know whether the ward would want the divorce if he or she was unable to decide?

The Drews decision turned out to be problematic, however, since a competent spouse does have the right to divorce an incompetent one. If a guardian can't file for divorce on a ward's behalf even when it is clearly in his or her best interest, the result would be to "grant the competent spouse 'absolute, final control over the marriage,'" the court said, citing Diane Snow Mills in an article in the Journal of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers.

To divorce or not to divorce over age 50? Some considerations

This may or may not surprise you, but it's becoming increasingly common for people 50 and older to divorce after long-term marriages. It has become so common, in fact, that the phenomenon has been dubbed "gray divorce." Most often, gray divorces take place among those with grown children, but people on the verge of retirement and even retirees are also making the decision to continue on alone.

With retirement either approaching or at hand, however, there are a some serious questions you should ask yourself before you make the decision to divorce. If you've been in a long-term marriage, chances are your finances are deeply interconnected with those of your spouse, and you may have been planning for years with the assumption that you would only have one household to support.

What's one of the major factors in divorce in America? Nagging.

That's right -- social scientists have put the nagging problem right on the table. While there are many reasons people may choose to divorce, and all of them are individual, psychologists and couples counselors have cited "nagging," or repeated requests for and reminders to do certain things, as a major reason relationships end.

For decades, we've heard that strong communication skills are the key to good relationships and that poor ones can destroy them. So why is nagging of particular concern?

One reason is that it can spiral out of control. According to research published in the Journal of Family Psychology, negative communication patterns increase sharply once couples become unhappy. Specifically, among couples who said they were unhappy in their marriages at the five-year point experienced, on average, a 20 percent increase in negative communication, along with a simultaneous decrease of 12 percent in positive communication.

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